Hi Feejo,
My experience with ME8 and maxlink (Tungsten T2) was terrible. I could not get it to ignore personal contacts and especially events in the calendar. So I stopped using it after many hours of trying to make it work for me.
Even today most of the birthdays of my family and friends are still in the calendar of my work Max address book!
I didn't even try on ME9.
I looked at a Palm app from France - MaxPocketContact from
www.maxaddon.com. This looks really useful and not very expensive but there is no trial software available and I could not get them to reply to my emails (3 times) so I gave up.
I found that Outlook integration with ME9 and Palm is a good way to synchronise and seems to work really well. I'm using XP and Outlook 2003 and all of the Maximizer contacts rather helpfully can go into their own Contacts category in Outlook and on the Palm. Tasks and appointments all seem to synchronise well. Only the notes do not seem to copy across and that may be because I have not yet tried this. For my needs I want to have contact details (phone, address etc) and calendar events (appointments, tasks) so I can call customers and organise meetings without needing my PC when I'm on the road.
Cheers
Paul